If you express shock and disgust regarding the heading of this article then welcome to the real world where threesomes and swingers are bountiful. Of course, the fact that it is a part of our society does not make it right nor do you have to participate if asked. I am not a moral judge, so hold off on burning me at the stakes or even throwing stones. I simply like to keep my articles real, as real as threesomes.

If a man were to ask his woman to participate in a threesome, what are your thoughts regarding him? Allow me to make a couple of guesses for you: he is being a typical man, he is greedy, or she should leave him because he is having sexual thoughts regarding other women or men. Hmm, what if a woman tells her man she wants to explore a threesome? Will your thoughts be the same regarding her? Will you view her differently? Let me make this a little more personal; what if your man asked you? I know I won't be wrong in saying that some of you might reply, "What took you so long to ask?" or you might tell him your views on sex is that it is between two individuals only, namely you and him. Are you sexually bi-curious without knowing? Could this request an avenue to address what has been on your mind?

The fact of the matter is that there are numerous reasons for someone to ask this of his/her partner: curiosity, sexual fantasy, sexual boredom, insatiable sexual appetite etc… If your curiosity is aroused and you do decide to participate what are your expectations and the rules? Rules? What rules? Oh, you had better have rules/boundaries if you decide to go this route. On numerous occasions, individuals are intrigued and excited over an idea or a fantasy that they would love to fulfill. However, faced with the possibility of having that fantasy fulfilled, they realise that they have not given much thought to executing it. Yes, you would have to have rules in your threesome or it can turn out to be very messy, no pun intended.

Here are some things to consider; who will be the person to fulfill you and your partner's threesome desires? Is this person going to be a man or a woman? Will it be someone you both know or someone only your partner knows? Do you want him/her, the act, to be in the same town, city, state, or even country?

You will have to establish the sexual limitations of both you and your partner. What acts are you comfortable with and willing to try? What are the acts you will not do? Will you be jealous if your partner pays more attention to the other person? Likewise, will your partner be jealous if you are getting more attention? Is this going to be a one-time occurrence or are you now going to incorporate this into your relationship on a more regular basis? Will all three of you remain in contact? Naturally, that will depend on the experience and/or the motive for having a threesome in the first place. Your reaction to such a request from your partner is also based upon the relationship you both have. If you are the jealous type a threesome is most likely not for you. For the sexually curious, a threesome conjures up sexciting images. However, a threesome, as the name implies, involves bringing a third party into your relationship. Unfortunately, most relationships end because of a third party involvement. How you react and what you do with such a request is entirely up to you.

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